REMAKE
THE RULES
Choicetech Consulting & Coaching for Modern Decision-Makers
Remake The Rules focuses on what sits between digital systems and real outcomes: the decision environment itself.
By making those structures visible, and more workable, Remake The Rules helps people collaborate with technology in ways that lead to better results, not just more activity.
When thoughtfully designed and used with intention, modern information tools can be a meaningful value-add, helping people make better choices and reach their goals more effectively.
Remake The Rules makes that potential real.
The world is noisy.
Increasingly, our most challenging social questions are being addressed through digital information systems that promise better outcomes—but rarely deliver.
Productivity metrics. Hiring platforms. Dating apps.
These systems now mediate how we evaluate people, prioritize information, and move decisions forward. They shape what we see, what we compare, and what feels like the “right” choice.
Too frequently, the outcomes disappoint, the tool failing to support better judgment.
That’s choicetech.
Choicetech refers to the tools, platforms, and digital systems that shape how decisions are made in information-rich environments—especially decisions involving people.
Used thoughtfully, these systems can expand perspective, reduce friction, and support better outcomes.
Used poorly or uncritically, they overwhelm, flatten nuance, and distort judgment.
Choicetech shows up everywhere:
Dating apps and matching algorithms
Hiring platforms and applicant tracking systems
Productivity dashboards, performance metrics, and KPIs
CRMs, internal tools, and AI-assisted workflows
Understanding Choicetech means understanding how decisions are being guided long before a choice is made.
The problem?
Why better tools don’t always lead to better outcomes.
Most digital systems promise:
efficiency, objectivity, better results
But many instead produce:
overload, misaligned incentives, shallow comparison, decision fatigue
When people are making decisions inside these systems—and others are using the same systems to evaluate them—the quality of judgment on all sides is affected.
The result isn’t just frustration.
It’s outcomes that consistently fall short of what the tools promise.
They claim to help but weren’t designed to work for you.
How Remake The Rules works.
Remake The Rules works at the level most advice skips: the decision environment itself.
This work focuses on:
how information is filtered, framed, and prioritized
where judgment is being constrained or distorted
how people and tools can collaborate more effectively
The goal is to reshape the conditions under which decisions are made so outcomes improve in ways that actually matter. It’s about learning how to use powerful tools well—with discernment, context, and care.
But we can change that.
What this looks like in practice.
The context may change, but the approach remains consistent.
This includes helping people:
date without burnout while using apps more effectively
hire and evaluate candidates with better signal and less noise
lead and manage without being ruled by metrics
design systems that actually support how they think, work, and decide
Across all of it, the focus is the same: better outcomes through intentional human-tech collaboration.
How do you want to choose better?
Ready to rethink how your decisions are shaped?
If you’re feeling frustrated by tools that were supposed to help—but haven’t—you don’t need to abandon them or their potential.
You need a better way to work with them.
What People are Saying about Remake The Rules
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![Emily Pabst of Remake The Rules offering human-centered coaching and decision-making strategy for modern dating, small business, leadership, and personal growth using tech-savvy tools and choice architecture.]()
“Remake The Rules has changed how I navigate my life decisions. Emily’s innovative approach pushed me to rethink assumptions and find my own voice in spaces that often feel rigid or overwhelming. Her insights are consistently refreshing, and I walk away from every session not only more knowledgeable but more in tune with how I think. I now feel capable and confident in making choices that resonate with my deepest values.”
-T.S.
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“Remake The Rules taught me that I could use technology and information in a way that doesn’t compromise my identity or values. Emily’s unique approach goes beyond surface-level advice, helping me understand my relationship with information systems and how to make them work for me rather than feeling constrained by them. Her thoughtful guidance has made me more self-aware, empowered, and capable of making choices that feel deeply aligned with who I am.”
- K.D.
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“Emily offers a genuinely different way of approaching decision-making. Her guidance helped me peel back layers of preconceived ideas and connect deeply with what matters to me. Through her thoughtful questions and the safe space she creates, I’ve come to trust my instincts and move forward in a way that feels honest and empowering. Emily’s work is a gift to anyone feeling out of sync with traditional systems.”
- T.B.
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![Emily Pabst of Remake The Rules offering human-centered coaching and decision-making strategy for modern dating, small business, leadership, and personal growth using tech-savvy tools and choice architecture.]()
“Emily has an incredible ability to take the complexity of modern information systems and make them feel approachable, manageable, and even empowering. Working with her has changed my relationship with technology—I now use it with intention rather than letting it lead my decisions. Emily’s thoughtful, innovative approach helped me see technology as a supportive tool in making decisions that are true to myself.”
- G.U.
